Name-calling and being shouted at for a simple request are examples of verbal abuse. However, not all verbal abuse is easy to spot despite its damaging impact. Recognizing verbal abuse and learning a different response are ways to empowerment, confrontation, and change. Three examples of verbal abuse may people overlook include: 1) abuse disguised as a joke (a joke meant to be funny but that makes you feel put down and victimized); 2) "whack-a-mole" (every time you speak, you are cut off so only the abuser's opinion or statements are fully heard); 3) being reminded of the downside (when you share good news, the abuser replies negatively to undermine your joy).