Don't be in denial about stalking. The U.S. Department of Justice considers you a victim if you are on the receiving end of at least one of these behaviors twice during a 12-month period and it resulted in fear for your safety or that of a family member: 1) unwanted phone calls; 2) unsolicited or unwanted letters or emails; 3) being followed or spied on; 4) the stalker waits at places for you; 6) receiving unwanted items, presents, or flowers; and/or 7) information being posted or rumors being spread about you on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth.